Saturday for a free post! Today, I feel like talking about the reason of not having a surname. I'll start introducing you about my root culture, Javanese.
My family, both sides, are from Yogyakarta. It is a city and the capital of Yogyakarta Special Region in Java, Indonesia. It is renowned as a centre of classical Javanese fine art and culture other big city in Java Island. It's about 45 minute-flight from Jakarta.
My parents had migrated from Yogyakarta in 1966 and have been living in Jakarta since then. My three sisters and I were born and grew up in Jakarta.
Though I've lived in Jakarta for almost 26 years, I'm categorized as Javanese. In Java Island (the most populated island in Indonesia), there are about three major races, Javanese, Sundanese, and the Betawi (Native people of Jakarta). But today I just want to talk about my root culture first, Javanese.
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Jakarta |
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Yogyakarta |
What is Javanese?
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Java Island |
The Javanese are an ethnic group native to the Indonesian island of Java. At approximately 100 million people (as of 2011), they form the largest ethnic group in Indonesia. They are predominantly located in the central to eastern parts of the island. There are also significant people of Javanese descent in most Provinces of Indonesia, Netherlands, Malaysia and Suriname.
Javanese people do not consider or identify themselves as part of Malay race because they have their own language and culture. Most Javanese in Indonesia are bilingual fluent in Indonesian (Bahasa Indonesia) and Javanese (Hanacaraka).
Culturally, Javanese people adopt a bilateral kinship system, with male and female descendants having equal importance. As such there is no preference on having a male heir like paternalistic cultures in India or China. Women have a high degree of autonomy and are respected in Javanese culture.
Javanese naming system.
Until recently, most Javanese did not have family names. Their 'surname' was merely another personal name. Usually, men and women have a given name and take the name of their father. Some married Indonesian women take the last/family name of their husband, but not all, and this name is usually added after their own 'last' name. Therefore, it is not uncommon for married couples to have different last/family names.
For instance, my mother didn't change or add her last name after got married with my Dad for all her official documents. She just used my dad's last name for casual thing.
I know, it sounds crazy to Western people. Like, when the first time I moved over New Zealand in 2009 for good, most of my friends here thought I've changed my name into Kristy because it sounds so English LOL, a bit funny, my family have been calling me Kristy since I was a baby!
My father, named his four daughters differently. Started with a baptist name (whole my family are Catholics),then followed by other pretty names afterwards, for example:
Brigita Amelia Era Krismayanti, that's my full name. My other three sisters names are: Maria Theresia Rika Erawati (First sister, nickname is Rika), Maria Mila Erastuti (Second sister, nickname is Mila), and Annathasia Puji Erasashanti (Third sister, nickname is Era). The only same thing in our names is the using of ERA. That's it.
It's same with other millions people in Indonesia who don't have a surname. But, every family has different way of naming their children.
Some people just have one word in their name, e.g: Sherly, or Michael. Some have two, three or maybe more words than my long name. Well, it's indeed very complicated to understand. You can click this link http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indonesian_names if you want to know more.
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We dressed up in Javanese tradional clothing. Right to left (back): my twin-cousin, Tissa (deceased), second sister Mila, First sister Rika, Third sister Era, and Myself (Front): My Dad (deceased) and my mom |
When I was in Jakarta, I used to put my name under Brigita Kristy to shorten my name. I always introduced myself as Kristy to people.
But, when I got to New Zealand, I've changed it as Kristy Gularso, because people keep calling me Brigita, which I don't like. Gularso is my dad's last name. Hope with this blog, it explains everything about my name.
So, next Saturday, I will talk more about the food and pop culture of Javanese.